What if you DO expect reciprocation? Or you almost never reciprocate (for whatever reason)? For the former, I think I've been in too many relationships that were "take all, give none", and now that I'm in a situation where it seems I have great difficulty giving more than 10% on most given days, I'm terrified of being "that" person - the one who only asks for help but can't or won't help out most of the time.
What if you DO expect reciprocation? Or you almost never reciprocate (for whatever reason)? For the former, I think I've been in too many relationships that were "take all, give none", and now that I'm in a situation where it seems I have great difficulty giving more than 10% on most given days, I'm terrified of being "that" person - the one who only asks for help but can't or won't help out most of the time.